I knew it was coming — re-enrollment time at preschool. Top of the form, first question: Will your child be going to kindergarten next year? Our answer: UGH!! We can’t decide!
Anna (our younger daughter) turns five in early July. In Virginia , the kindergarten cut off date is September 30, so she clearly could go. But, should she? We waited an extra year with Molly (our older daughter), whose birthday is in mid-August. Molly entered kindergarten having just turned 6, and she’s done beautifully. It was the right decision for Molly. But Molly and Anna are different from each other. Very different.
This concept of “academic red shirting” for rising kindergarten students has gotten a lot of attention. CBS covered the story, with opinion from Barbara Willer, deputy executive director for the National Association for the Education of Young Children . The National Center for Education Statistics examined the reading and math achievement data of children who repeated kindergarten or who began kindergarten a year late.
Preventing Reading Difficulties in Young Children refers to the practice of holding young children out of school for an extra year before kindergarten as “buying a year,” and suggests that the practice widens the gap between the most and least advanced children. I’m not looking to do that! I just want to provide Anna with every opportunity to flourish once she does get on the hamster wheel of public school. I feel like this is our only opportunity to give her the gift of time; like others , I wouldn’t consider a grade retention later on in school.
Academically, Anna’s ready. Knows her letters, sounds, loves to “write” and will count to 100 for anyone who will listen. Socially, she’s ready. Outgoing, friendly and funny. Motor development, ready. Rides her two wheeler like a whip, jumps rope. Hmmm. As I write this she seems ready, doesn’t she? Maybe it’s the mom that isn’t!? Stay tuned. Forms are due by the end of the week!